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Time drifts away before we know it. Change is inevitable. We learn, we grow, and we find ourselves. Within this lifetime, we will come across people who will impact our lives in one way or another. We will create memories and begin new adventures.

As we grow, we have to make difficult decisions. We have to focus on ourselves along the way and not let anyone or anything get in our way of bettering ourselves. Unfortunately, sometimes this means we need to distance ourselves from any sort of negativity that follows us. Whether it be an obstacle or a person that is getting in our way.

I've learned a lot about myself over the past years and this year alone. I've learned about strength and perseverance. I'm sure there is still a lot left to learn, not just about myself, but about life itself. We will go through many obstacles that will test our strength. I firmly believe that we are only faced with battles that we can overcome and endure. It's up to us to decide how we will choose to face them.

I know this phrase is overused, but life is too short to hold onto grudges, to hate, to be negative. I don't want to live my life filled with regrets or filled with hate. I'd rather live it making mistakes and owning up to them and learning how to grow from them. It's up to us how we decide to live our lives. I prefer living it up to the fullest so that I can look back and know that it was all worth it.

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